FOCUSING ON THE EMOTIONS* OF DAILY LIFE
How to change without trying too hard
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A GUIDE FOR THEIR MAINTENANCE
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What "Focusing" is and what it is not 1. Prologue "It is all in the head" So what? 2. For whom the following chapters are intended and for whom they are not The good news: The bad news: Respect for the suffering Only improvement The vengeance of psychology 3. How and why to read this book 4. Key to concepts, abbreviations and strange words 5. Do it yourself - now! I. A warning for beginners II. First stage - the beginning steps of guided sensate focusing First step - know thyself Second step - finding the exact address The third step - more intimate acquaintance-ship with sensations The fourth step The fifth step The sixth step Summary of the first stage III. Daily Focusing 1. The nape of the neck 2. The facial muscles and the vocal cords 3. The mouth 4. The muscles of the body in general 5. The common excitations and itching 6. The general survey 7. Focusing on the emotional expressions of others IV. Second stage - recycled emotions (for very advanced focusers only) Why to recycle Why not Psychoanalysis? Hurrah for the practical leftism A - Reconstruction of neglected opportunities B - Lost & Found C - Changing behavioral patterns D - A violent patrol E - Popular scientific literature, art works, nostalgia F - A most violent patrol G - The provocations V. Synthetic emotions or "remedy before disaster" VI. Special projects - for advanced focusers only VII. Impossible missions??? 1. Steps to be taken against psychosomatic disturbances 2. Increasing the pleasure derived from smoking or curbing the habit The first step - preliminaries The second step - getting acquainted with the habit The third step - the beginning of the real struggle The fourth step - the real struggle itself The fifth step - branching to restrictors and abolitionists The sixth step - the decisive struggle The seventh step - the final assault Regular maintenance Vicarious focusing on smoking 3. Regulating the sexual functioning and reducing disturbances 4. "Cultivating the voice" and the reduction of tension 5. Controlling the body weight First step Second step Third step Fourth step Fifth step Sixth step VIII. Concluding remarks 6. A short guide for the focusing "coach" I. General recommendations for professionals II. The main body of the guide to the focusing "coach" A general introduction The first focusing session The first step of the first stage The second to fifth steps The sixth step Summary of the first session The following sessions 7. The emotions What are the emotions The biological basis of the emotions The basic emotions The list of 15 basic emotions: The essence of emotional phenomenon How are the emotions of daily life created? The emotional experience 8. The activation programs 9. Ad hoc activation programs 10. Supra-Programs 11. The emotional Supra-Programs 12. The cover-programs 13. The trash-programs Why are programs trashy? Common roots of trash-programs 14. How it really works Paying attention Biofeedback or how the head works "Illegal" feedback or "how the trash-programs are hunted" The lost paradox Selected Bibliography Supplement: A form for marking the time when bad habits are activated
2. Activation Program or Activation Plan or Scheme: is a pattern for
the activation of processes in the mind and body, stored in the
memory. Usually it does not operate by itself but by means of a
temporary ad hoc operation program(4) constructed for the specific
occasion from various programs already stored in the memory. More on the activation programs
3. Basic Emotion: is the most common name for the combination of the
individual brain structure of a basic emotion and the activation
program(s) of this structure. Each of the basic emotions includes a
program or a subprogram for the perceptual component; for the
integrational one; for the intra-body activation one; for the behavioral
one; and for the expressive one. Each of the basic emotions includes
also a program for the component which is responsible for the subjective
experience of the activity of that basic emotion.
4. Ad Hoc Operation Program is a temporary structure of (or in) the
memory, which was built in order to execute one of the many functions
and processes of the mind, body and behavior. It is based on activation
programs, previous experience and other materials already stored in the
memory. Taking into consideration the specific circumstances of the
moment, it is built anew for each occasion, by the ad hoc operating
programs active at that time.
5. Input or Feed is the process of transferring energy, matter or
information, or all of them, from one source or various sources,
continuously, on schedule, sporadically or vicariously, to any
destination that is capable of absorbing it.
6. Feedback is a type of transfer of input (mostly to be used as
information) from one part of a system (the feeding one) into a process
which goes on in another part of the system (the one which is fed)
caused by previous or concurrent input from the part which now gets that
input in return. In daily life, this concept is frequently used to label
the information regarding the influence of previous activity, behavior
and speech - of the target of the feedback, on its source.
7. Felt Sensation or "felt sense" for short is the name of those
sensations of the body of which we become aware. All of them are related
to mental processes. Frequently, when attended to, they are organized
and felt as a meaningful whole. These sensations derive from five main
sources:
9. Emotional Supra-Program is a supra-program in which the weight of the
emotional components is prominent. Often the activation of the emotional
components of the emotional supra-program causes an explicit subjective
emotional experience or at least a feeling, mood or some sort of a felt
sense, which one can attend to.
10. Trashy Supra-Program or in short - Trash-Program is one of the many
important but malfunctioning supra-programs which were constructed
during a person's life time. Though their functioning might have been
reasonable at the time, it is no longer so. The existence of such
programs (plans) is possible mainly because a regular regime of mending
and updating of activation programs is not customary in our culture.
11. Socialization is a general name for the process of bringing up the
newborn till they are mature members of society. Most of the efforts of
those engaged in this task are devoted to the creation of the
supra-programs of the young (though they seldom know it, and think that
they are teaching and educating them). The roots of the main
trash-programs of a person can be traced back to these processes.
12. Bio-Feedback is the shortened name for the feedback people receive
from their biological systems - originally given to the information
individuals received from instruments, while they are measuring ongoing
biological processes of their body. It is usually connected with the
word "training" to create the concept "biofeedback training". This kind
of training is supposed to enable people to control measurable
biological processes of their body, in spite of the fact that they are
usually unaware of them and the way they succeed in doing it. (We can
become aware of only part of those when they reach extreme levels.)
13. Natural biofeedback is a longer form of the term "biofeedback". It
will be used instead of the shorter one, in order to stress the
difference between the two main kinds of feedback: the instrumental
bio-feedback described above and the natural biological feedback. In
contrast to the former, in which the feedback is supplied by
instruments, in the latter, both the information and the means of its
communication are biological.
14. Sensate-Focus(ing) or Focusing: The act of concentrating attention
on a sensation at a point of the body, or to that of a region (small or
large) or to the totality of the sensations felt at the particular
moment. It can be done relatively spontaneously and it can also be done
deliberately... and even as part of a schedule.
15. Cognitive processes is a technical term for the different kinds of
processing information done in the brain while it deals with the new
input and with the older ones that are stored in the memory. It is
mainly used to define higher level processes the products or results of
which are accessible to the awareness and logic or potentially so.
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To do it yourself - now
To the Daily Focusing
To the recycled emotions
To the Special projects
To the Guide for the guide
To the Emotions
to the Impossible missions???
"It is all in the head"
will enable you to change anything which
is dependant on you or your mind.
So what?
Eugene Gendlin and his group have found, after meticulous research,
that the gains achieved during psychotherapy are restricted to certain
kinds of patients. They have found that these patients spontaneously
focus on their felt sensations during their psychotherapy.
They have also found that people can be taught the focusing
procedures - in and out of psychotherapy settings. They concluded that
the focusing by itself, even without the help of a professional
therapist, guide or coach, can solve people's psychological
problems.
The good news:
The bad news:
Respect for the suffering
Only improvement
The vengeance of psychology
So:
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* Actually, this chapter can be regarded as a condensed preliminary
introduction or a summary - to be read as a unit by itself. Therefore,
the order of the items included in it is not alphabetical. After the
first reading, or without it, it will serve you as a short
dictionary.
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The concepts
2. Activation Program 6. Feedback
4. Ad Hoc Operation Programs 7. Felt Sensation
3. Basic Emotion 5. Input or Feed
1. Basic Emotional structures 14. Sensate Focusing
12. Biofeedback 11. Socialization
13. Natural Biofeedback 16. Subliminal Perception
15. Cognitive Processes 8. Supra-Program
17. Cover-Program 10. Trashy Supra-Program
9. Emotional Supra-Program
1. Basic Emotional Structures are approximately 15 - 20 neuro-biological
structures of the brain. Their main components are located in various
parts of the "Limbic System", which is an archaic part of the
brain. Each of these structures is a relatively independent part of
the emotional system and
is in a reciprocal relationship with nearly all the other systems and
subsystems of the brain and body.
8. Supra-Programs or Supra-Plans are complex brain activation programs
which were built during the course of the life of the owner. They are
based mainly on innate programs, on supra-programs that were built
previously (of innate ones), and on the accumulated memories of the
activations of programs in the past.
16. Subliminal - perception or sensation - is the term used to define
the input of a process to the subsystem of the awareness when it does
not engage our consciousness. This can happen when the input is too weak
to begin with, when psychological "defenses" and other filtering
processes - the "Cover-Programs"(17) - weaken it and when we consciously
choose to attend to something else.
17. Cover-Program is a kind of a Supra-Program(8) that serves to prevent
or to weaken the activity of other supra-programs and to prevent or
restrict their intruding into the awareness. Sometimes the covering
affect is applied only (or mainly) to some of the components of the
emotional supra-program - mostly to those that are available to the
awareness.
The cover-programs take part in regulating the allocation of the
limited amount of brain resources and the limited capacity of awareness
to the various tasks at hand. They are valuable and faulty in all the
ways the other supra-programs are.
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